"the top ten ways to know that your relationship is a good one"
well i clicked onto one of these when i was bored and have come to the conclusion that not only was it written by a women who has just got into a relationship but also has fundemental rules which are wrong.
so today i'm going to scrutinise every single rule with my powers of sceptisism for your "enjoyment"
1. Whenever you are with them, nothing else in the world matters.
wrong
well sort of
on the face of it not a bad rule but "nothing" else matters and "noone" else matters are two different things. this one says nothing and i have seen it before when someone sacrifices GCSE results or there relationship with family for some lad. overall its an ok rule but more thought into it would be gud...... (remember im being sceptic about these so take all of these with a pinch of salt)
2. He calls you beautiful or gorgeous instead of hot or sexy.
wrong
appearances are what first makes someone interested. so if your still going on about it when in the middle of a relationship...... plus have you never thought that the boy saying thes nice things might know he's making you feel good. you = round his little finger. overall how can you ever predict what a relationship will be like through what someone says?
3.3. You think about them all day long, and dream about them every night.
wrong
you try thinking about one thing all day, go on i dare you
4. They are the first and last voice you hear.
wrong
well what if you dont live with your boyfreind? then your in a bit of a pickle when you want there voice to be the first you hear.
5.Even if your parents don't want you being together you stay together.
wrong
this rule doesnt predict a good relationship. just proves you disagree with your parents. plus there must be a good reason for your parents to dislike your boyfreind.
6. They can drive you crazy and yet you still wanna always be around them.
right
yepp pretty true i mean who wants to be in a relationship with someone they don't want to be around? i mean everyone is annoying at times.
7. You don't have to worry about losing them to anybody.
right
yepp trust is the key. i love phrases like that
8.Religious matters don't get in the way.
wrong
the person who wrote this is obviously an atheist. religous matters? religion is a faith people have and therefore is more important than a boyfreind or girlfreind. which means its not the religion in the way its the relationship in the way of the faith. now thats serious scrutinisation!!
9. They understand your schedulel can't always fit them in.
wrong
you try booking a boyfreind slot into your timescale. by doing that instantly there a hobby not a relationship. hmm bet u never thought i could call this one wrong hey?
10.They will give you your space and respect you.
wright
see what i did there.
yeh first half is right second half is a blatent obviousness and shouldnt even have to be included. why enter a relationship without respect.
so out of ten i figure 2.5 of the rules to be right thats 25% of there rules right.
not a good percentage by that is it now?
thats the end of my rant and now for some mentions
remember to look at the other blogs around at the side >
also matt wendels wanted me to mention him.
so ill do the generous thing and give him two
1. the titans still good?
2. still a fan of the mother worm?
